{"id":104,"date":"2012-06-11T07:35:02","date_gmt":"2012-06-11T07:35:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/blog\/?p=104"},"modified":"2012-06-11T07:35:02","modified_gmt":"2012-06-11T07:35:02","slug":"teacher-stress-a-tool","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/blog\/teacher-stress-a-tool\/","title":{"rendered":"Teacher stress &#8211; a tool"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I talked <a title=\"teacher stress #1\" href=\"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/blog\/2012\/06\/teacher-stress\/\" target=\"_blank\">last post<\/a>\u00a0(called with little imagination &#8216;Teacher Stress&#8217;) about the fact that teachers are somewhat special in the way they have to deal with stress because many of the tools that are available to &#8216;normal&#8217; people can&#8217;t be used by classroom-facing teachers.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d like to explore in this blog a technique that does work for teachers. The plan isn&#8217;t to deal with stress, it&#8217;s to make teachers more immune to stress and more &#8217;emotionally robust&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>Culturally (I&#8217;m writing in the UK) we find it very difficult to say &#8220;I&#8217;m really good at this&#8221;. Some people can, of course &#8211; but even then not everyone who says it believes it. With teachers&#8217; being judged by external factors so much, this lack of self belief can get pretty serious. We often start to believe that we&#8217;re genuinely <strong>not<\/strong> good at anything &#8211; and feeling like this is a sure fire recipe for being vulnerably to stress&#8230; if you don&#8217;t feel able to admit to yourself that you&#8217;re a good teacher (or good parent or trainer or accountant or whatever!) and then the proof comes in that you&#8217;re not, in the form of bad results in this year&#8217;s GCSE or Value Added Scores&#8230; you can see where this can lead!<\/p>\n<p>So here&#8217;s the tool.<\/p>\n<p>Create a table with three columns (a simple sheet of A4 will do, it doesn&#8217;t need to be on a computer, or even be neat!) and label the right hand column &#8220;Acts&#8221;. In it, jot down half a dozen things you&#8217;ve done successfully in the last 72 hours. Most people protest that they&#8217;ve not achieved anything in their last 72 hours when I use this exercise as part of our stress management training but that&#8217;s not the point &#8211; it doesn&#8217;t have to be something that turns the world around.<\/p>\n<p>In my case I&#8217;ve been known to include driving to the venue without crashing or (as far as I was aware) breaking any laws. One client included getting dressed in the morning which seemed to me to be a great example because everyone does it! (<em>If someone else dressed them in the morning they clearly have a far more interesting life than I do!<\/em>). Leave a bit of space between each of the items on your list and dont&#8217; get stressed if you can&#8217;t immediately create six. Half a dozen is an approximate number!<\/p>\n<p>When you&#8217;ve listed your successes, label the middle column &#8220;Skills&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Each of your successes is based upon (at least!) one skill so beside each Act, jot down a skill it&#8217;s based upon. Don&#8217;t take the word Skill too literally &#8211; anything that the Act is predicated on will do.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if I get to a training venue on time (a success) it is predicated on an ability to drive (or a could have picked &#8216;plan&#8217; or &#8216;navigate&#8217; etc). \u00a0(<em>I should add, in case anyone is doubting me, that I have always got to training venues on time, this is just an example! \ud83d\ude42\u00a0<\/em>)<\/p>\n<p>I suggest taking a break before the next bit &#8211; the metaphorical cup of tea sounds like a good idea!<\/p>\n<p>Step three is simple &#8211; each Skill is built in turn upon (at least!) on &#8220;Fundamental&#8221;. Label the left hand column that way and (the obvious bit here!) list a Fundamental for each of the Skills (and hence each of the Acts).<\/p>\n<p>Take another break &#8211; there&#8217;s nothing worse than getting stressed by the exercise itself!<\/p>\n<p>Now have a look at the list of things you have in your left hand column. These are basic, fundamental, important and timeless things that are<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>about you<\/li>\n<li>true<\/li>\n<li>positive.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The important thing to remember is that no matter what may or may not go right tomorrow. \u00a0If you get stressed every time things like these go wrong you&#8217;re going to suffer from a lot of stress! But by drawing attention to the fundamental, positive things about you, you&#8217;ve now got a tool to fight that response with.<\/p>\n<p>Just because this year&#8217;s value added is negative doesn&#8217;t automatically mean you&#8217;re a bad teacher and should get stressed! Go back to your list and remind yourself of the important, long-term, robust positives!<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re a teacher, your mileage will vary, of course, but personally I use \u00a0this technique every six months or so to keep my list fresh and in my mind &#8211; or whenever I&#8217;m told to use it by one or two of my most trusted friends (who spot when I&#8217;m getting wound up long, long before I do!). I realise that training and teaching are different in many ways but there are similarities too: live by the feedback form, die by the feedback form! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll look next time at a couple of techniques for dealing with stress using physiological tools for when stress <strong>does<\/strong> get to you in the classroom!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>You may want to know a bit about our\u00a0<a title=\"stress inset for teachers\" href=\"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/inset\" target=\"_blank\">stress INSET for teachers<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I talked last post\u00a0(called with little imagination &#8216;Teacher Stress&#8217;) about the fact that teachers are somewhat special in the way they have to deal with stress because many of the tools that are available to &#8216;normal&#8217; people can&#8217;t be used by classroom-facing teachers. 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