{"id":10,"date":"2006-07-03T07:34:18","date_gmt":"2006-07-03T06:34:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.elementally.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/2006\/07\/03\/just-go-out-there-and-be-yourself\/"},"modified":"2006-07-03T07:34:18","modified_gmt":"2006-07-03T06:34:18","slug":"just-go-out-there-and-be-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/just-go-out-there-and-be-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Just go out there and be yourself in a presentation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve come across this advice about making presentations in quite a few places over the years, and while it sounds good, it&#8217;s somewhat limited (and occasionally even just plain <strong><em>wrong<\/em><\/strong>). I know it&#8217;s usually <em>meant <\/em>well &#8211; spoken by a friend just before a terrified speaker goes up on stage in a last minute attempt to reassure them that all will be well &#8211; but the truth is that being a good speaker requires more than that. You need to &#8220;be yourself&#8221; <em><strong>and <\/strong><\/em>you need to &#8220;perform&#8221; at the same time &#8211; in other words you need to be yourself <em>and<\/em> have good <strong>presentation skills<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Tricky?  Of course; if it wasn&#8217;t tricky we&#8217;d all be doing it!<\/p>\n<p>Think of the techniques to help you &#8216;perform&#8217; as being like walking. Once you&#8217;re passed the toddler stage, you don&#8217;t really think about the mechanics of walking, you just use them &#8211; without thinking about it &#8211; to do the important stuff of getting from A to B.<\/p>\n<p>What is certainly true is that all the great performers <em><strong>are<\/strong> <\/em>themselves when they&#8217;re presenting their stuff: with a master, you never get the feeling that you&#8217;re on the receiving end of &#8216;material&#8217;. It always seems to be &#8216;just them talking&#8217;. Therein lies their expertise, of course. Billy Connelly, for example appears to be just standing their and saying the first thing that comes to mind. Be assured, he isn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>With this in mind, I&#8217;ve jotted down a few bits and bobs of presentation skills advice which might help anyone who&#8217;s got to &#8216;got out there&#8217;\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6. Number three is the hard one!<\/p>\n<p>1.\t<strong>Know your material inside out, back to front and sideways<\/strong>. That way it really comes from you and you&#8217;re not delivering it. Comedians can&#8217;t tell each others jokes because they somehow &#8220;don&#8217;t fit&#8221; and a presenter can&#8217;t deliver someone else&#8217;s material or material they&#8217;re not comfortable with. If you try you&#8217;ll unfortunately come across as confused, insincere (or both). You won&#8217;t have time to think once you&#8217;re in mid-performance (well, some people do, but not anyone who needs enough help to be reading an introductory article like this! :) ) so make sure that you&#8217;ve thought about all the different directions you could go from any point in your presentation.<br \/>\n2.\t<strong>Forgive yourself a mistake<\/strong>. They happen. Your audience will almost always forgive you (and may not even notice!). What they won&#8217;t forgive is you allowing something trivial to put yourself off. It&#8217;s not the end of the world. A bad presentation is not a disaster. It&#8217;s not likely that there were many deaths involved and precious few people will have lost their homes just because of one bad presentation. Think of it as a kind of arrogance to be so upset by mistakes: you&#8217;re not that important to the people you&#8217;re talking to, 99.9% of the time.<\/p>\n<p>3.\t<strong>Learn the right techniques<\/strong>. It&#8217;s all well and good being comfortable on stage, being yourself, having good material and so on if you can&#8217;t deliver it. Learn to use your voice correctly, to carry to the back of the room. Project, don&#8217;t shout. Making your voice louder is counter-productive: you&#8217;ll sound like you&#8217;re trying too hard and your credibility will plummet. To make matters worse, you&#8217;ll alienate the people at the front and you&#8217;ll finish, absolutely knackered &#8211; assuming you don&#8217;t do permanent damage to your voice, of course!<\/p>\n<p>Techniques should be so integrated to you and your style that they stop becoming techniques at all, and just become a part of you. You should never let the people you&#8217;re talking to see the techniques, either. Last year I toured with a dance company and I can distinctly remember hearing a member of the audience enthusing to one of the dancers about how amazing it was to be able to work <em>that<\/em> hard and for <em>that<\/em> long: the amount of physical effort involved &#8220;<em>was amazing<\/em>&#8220;. The dancer was gutted, despite it being intended as a compliment by a fan who was absolutely blown away. Why? Because it shouldn&#8217;t have looked like it was a physical effort at all. Remember this one motto\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6..<\/p>\n<p><em>If it looks like you&#8217;re working hard, you&#8217;re not working hard enough.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>4.\t<strong>Don&#8217;t try and fake it<\/strong>. Stay with who you are. The last thing the audience wants to see is an impression of some else. If they&#8217;d wanted to see someone super-confident, ultra-swarve and free from fault, they&#8217;d have gone to see someone super-confident, ultra-swarve and free from fault. They&#8217;ve come to see and hear <strong>you<\/strong> for a reason.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll say it again\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6. <u>Number three is the hard one<\/u>: that&#8217;s the key to all the others. If you can get the right method and techniques so far into you that you don&#8217;t think about them, you can both be yourself and perform at the same time.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that this isn&#8217;t the whole story &#8211; and the details of how you do Number Three is something I&#8217;ve drawn a viel over here, but it&#8217;s not as hard as you think (well, hopefully!)<\/p>\n<p>Cheers&#8230;..  Simon<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve come across this advice about making presentations in quite a few places over the years, and while it sounds good, it&#8217;s somewhat limited (and occasionally even just plain wrong). 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