{"id":131,"date":"2008-03-22T15:29:35","date_gmt":"2008-03-22T14:29:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.elementally.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/2008\/03\/22\/so-scared-it-hurts\/"},"modified":"2008-03-22T15:29:35","modified_gmt":"2008-03-22T14:29:35","slug":"so-scared-it-hurts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/so-scared-it-hurts\/","title":{"rendered":"So scared it hurts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I recently did a session for an organisation whose brief was to help the voluntary sector in our part of the country become more professional and organised.  The day was, obviously, about making a presentation to potential funders and had a &#8220;Dragon&#8217;s Den&#8221; format for the afternoon.<\/p>\n<p>Take-up wasn&#8217;t good, sadly.  They&#8217;d organised the day on the grounds that this was what people wanted and needed, because they were anxious about it &#8211; because pitching for funding is a critical part of <strong>any<\/strong> project.  It turned out that people were <strong>so<\/strong> anxious about being bad at public speaking they were too anxious to even try it in a training environment.  What&#8217;s more, people tended to come alone, rather than in pairs &#8211; the benefit of moral support being out-weighed by the shame of being seen to be a bad public speaker by a colleague!<\/p>\n<p>So, so sad!<\/p>\n<p>How did it come to this?<\/p>\n<p>Well let&#8217;s not get too despondent.  The people we&#8217;re talking about care very much about what they do &#8211; otherwise they&#8217;d not be doing it.  That&#8217;s great: I&#8217;d rather work with people who cared than people who wanted to talk for the sake of it.  And &#8211; at risk of sounding patronising, please forgive me &#8211; we&#8217;re not talking about professionally trained speakers or high-powered business men or women.  We&#8217;re talking about real people, with real jobs.  Working really hard.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;and if public speaking, making a presentation, isn&#8217;t part of their everyday working life they&#8217;re not going to have found the time to get a series of successful presentations under their belts.  Each and every presentation is going to feel like the first time.  And I don&#8217;t know about you, but my first time wasn&#8217;t good.<\/p>\n<p>So what&#8217;s to be done?\u00c2\u00a0 Well, I&#8217;d welcome your ideas!\u00c2\u00a0 All I can think of is to continue to offer great training that&#8217;s not intimidating, that&#8217;s not stressful and that is a load of fun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I recently did a session for an organisation whose brief was to help the voluntary sector in our part of the country become more professional and organised. The day was, obviously, about making a presentation [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-131","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-articles","category-personal-blog-related"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/131","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=131"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/131\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=131"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=131"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=131"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}