{"id":175,"date":"2008-09-29T20:49:57","date_gmt":"2008-09-29T19:49:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.elementally.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/?p=175"},"modified":"2008-09-29T20:49:57","modified_gmt":"2008-09-29T19:49:57","slug":"why-is-nothing-ever-easy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/why-is-nothing-ever-easy\/","title":{"rendered":"Why is nothing ever easy?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I wrote some advice on a public speaking forum recently in support of another poster who&#8217;d suggested not fighting a problem.  The original poster had asked for the usual magic bullet about how to make their speicifc problems relating to presenting &#8220;go away&#8221; and someone called Cutecut suggested that they just &#8216;let it be&#8217;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>All to often people seem to think that presentations are &#8216;supposed&#8217; to be easy and that they&#8217;re &#8216;unusual&#8217; or something because they find them difficult.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is, they [b]are[\/b] difficult and it&#8217;s [b]normal[\/b] to have problems with them.  Very often the solution to a specific problem is just to let it be &#8211; sometimes that makes it go away of it&#8217;s own volition &#8211; and accept the fact that presentations aren&#8217;t ever perfect.   No one does perfect presentations: no one at all.<\/p>\n<p>Accepting that your audience are going to forgive you the odd imperfection is a great way of making your presentations better and enjoying your public speaking more, obviously; but remember that &#8211; at least until your an expert &#8211; it&#8217;s always going to be nerve-inducing and difficult.  It&#8217;s supposed to be: if it isn&#8217;t, you&#8217;ll be rubbish &#8211; because nerves are good.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, that&#8217;s not 100% true &#8211; there is a class of people who can be less than expert and still not be nervous or find it difficult.  You&#8217;ll spot them for yourselves though: they&#8217;ll be the really, really bad speakers! :)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I wrote some advice on a public speaking forum recently in support of another poster who&#8217;d suggested not fighting a problem. The original poster had asked for the usual magic bullet about how to make [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-175","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-presentation-tips"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=175"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=175"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=175"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=175"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}