{"id":196,"date":"2008-10-21T08:17:30","date_gmt":"2008-10-21T07:17:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.elementally.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/?p=196"},"modified":"2008-10-21T08:17:30","modified_gmt":"2008-10-21T07:17:30","slug":"confident-about-your-nerves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/confident-about-your-nerves\/","title":{"rendered":"Confident about your nerves&#8230;?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Recently, I seem to have heard lots of people, in various places, saying that they don&#8217;t understand why they&#8217;re nervous or anxious when they make presentations because they&#8217;re confident and they know their stuff. Well, I&#8217;m confident too, when I stand up to make a presentation or run a workshop &#8211; but it doesn&#8217;t stop me from being nervous. The two are barely related&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\u00e2\u20ac\u02dcNervous&#8217; is about being afraid that things might go wrong but \u00e2\u20ac\u02dcconfident&#8217; is about knowing you can handle things if they do. I&#8217;m writing this on a train towards Leeds to do a voice workshop for some actors: I don&#8217;t know what they&#8217;re like and I don&#8217;t know how good they are &#8211; what I&#8217;ve got prepared might not be what they are expecting, so I&#8217;m nervous. But I&#8217;m also sure that I can do a good job of things (I&#8217;ve done lots of it after all!) so I&#8217;m also confident.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, nerves are good. Nerves produce a variety of hormones: adrenaline and cortisol are two of the best known. Obviously you don&#8217;t want to be a slave to adrenaline but I want you to think of cortisol as being like adrenaline for the brain &#8211; it speeds up your thinking and helps you remember what you&#8217;re going to say! So it&#8217;s a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>The next time you have to make a presentation, don&#8217;t try to deal only with your nerves: also ask yourself how confident you&#8217;re feeling. If you&#8217;re not confident, work on what you need to work on. If you are confident don&#8217;t beat yourself up because you&#8217;re also nervous or anxious. I spend a lot of time in training session working with people who&#8217;ve spent a huge amount of time, effort and energy working on the wrong thing! That&#8217;s time wasted, which could have been spent on other things (such as the content of their presentation!).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recently, I seem to have heard lots of people, in various places, saying that they don&#8217;t understand why they&#8217;re nervous or anxious when they make presentations because they&#8217;re confident and they know their stuff. Well, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,7,9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-196","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-articles","category-personal-blog-related","category-presentation-tips"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/196","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=196"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/196\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=196"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=196"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=196"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}