{"id":3228,"date":"2016-05-09T08:32:11","date_gmt":"2016-05-09T07:32:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/?p=3228"},"modified":"2016-05-07T10:32:39","modified_gmt":"2016-05-07T09:32:39","slug":"presenting-when-youre-not-at-your-best","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/presenting-when-youre-not-at-your-best\/","title":{"rendered":"Presenting when you&#8217;re not at your best"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>How am I not at my best?<\/h1>\n<div align=\"center\" style=\"display:block;clear:both;margin:0;padding:0;\">\r\n   <table style=\"margin:0;table-layout:fixed;\" width=\"100%\" border=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\">\r\n     <tr valign=\"top\">\r\n       \r\n       <td width=\"50%\" align=\"left\" valign=\"top\" style=\"\"><div align=\"left\"  style=\"margin:0;padding:0;;\"><h2>A hole in my mouth<\/h2>\n<p>A while ago I lost a tooth. It was a biggie, but at the back of my mouth, so it doesn&#8217;t show. (I&#8217;ll spare you the photographs!). In the grand scheme of things it&#8217;s not so big &#8211; it&#8217;s just a tooth, after all. Even a &#8216;big&#8217; tooth isn&#8217;t really all that big.<\/p>\n<p>But I&#8217;ve noticed it&#8217;s had quite an effect upon my presentation delivery and I&#8217;ve had to work to compensate. \u00a0For example, it makes me mis-pronounce\u00a0things occasionally. It&#8217;s not serious and it&#8217;s probably not anything anyone else would notice, but I do. It also seems to affect the amount of saliva in my mouth.<\/p>\n<p>But more importantly &#8211; much more importantly, it makes me self-conscious. And as soon as a presenter becomes too aware of him\/her self there are problems. For example, I hesitate for half a second before I smiled a couple of times on stage last week. Nothing serious, just enough to notice. And I&#8217;ll bet I&#8217;m not alone, everyone is super-sensitive to their mouth<\/div><\/td><td width=\"6\" style=\"margin:0;padding:0;\"><\/td><td width=\"6\" style=\"margin:0;padding:0;\"><\/td><td width=\"50%\" align=\"left\" valign=\"top\" style=\"\"><div align=\"left\"  style=\"margin:0;padding:0;;\"><h2>A bulge in my leg<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_3674\" style=\"width: 460px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3674\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3674\" src=\"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/achillies_statue_small.jpeg\" alt=\"Statue of Achillies\" width=\"450\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/achillies_statue_small.jpeg 450w, http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/achillies_statue_small-300x200.jpeg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-3674\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Yes, I really am this good looking. Honest.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I&#8217;m currently &#8216;carrying&#8217; (as sports people say) an injury: I have an inflamed Achilles tendon in my left leg. When I do nothing with it, it&#8217;s fine, but as soon as I move on it, it hurts. The treatment is rest, ice, acupuncture and so on. It&#8217;s officially a PITA. Limping as you make presentations is a serious hinderance and it led me to making a big mistake in a training session last week. I was in pain, the room was pathetically small, over-crowded and hand all kinds of holes and wires over the floor. My brain was only partially in the game.<\/div><\/td>\r\n       \r\n     <\/tr>\r\n   <\/table>\r\n<\/div>\n<p>The question, of course, is how to make a good presentation even if you&#8217;re not up for it. \u00a0We&#8217;ve all had to handle injuries or illness at some point and in an everyday job you can just take it easy for a while. You don&#8217;t have that luxury when everyone is looking at you.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the main problem. Research I uncovered for my last book suggests that people are far too keen to overgeneralise: if you&#8217;re not impressive, your content won&#8217;t be perceived as impressive, either &#8211; or at least there&#8217;s a significant risk.<\/p>\n<p>So what do you do?<\/p>\n<p>To quote my elder daughter (a doctor): take two paracetamol and man the **** up, Dad. (Good to see all that money I spent on medical school wasn&#8217;t wasted, eh?!)<\/p>\n<p>More seriously, here are a few options, in no particular order.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Admit it. Do an internal stock-check. You can&#8217;t deal with what you don&#8217;t know is there. Sounds obvious, right? \u00a0But how many times have you tried to &#8216;just soldier on&#8217; when you shouldn&#8217;t have? <strong>No false heroics here, please<\/strong>!<\/li>\n<li>See if you can re-schedule. Sometimes you can&#8217;t, but better to consider it than screw up. Delaying by a week or a month is better than going ahead and falling flat on your face, metaphorically (or even literally in the case of my limp!)<\/li>\n<li>Think about getting someone else to present, or at least present with you. We all need backup at some point.<\/li>\n<li>Consider turning it from a presentation into something more of a workshop: ideas from the floor and conversations between your audience can give you some great work. Again, it&#8217;s not always appropriate, but think about it.<\/li>\n<li>Drugs. Take whatever it takes to get you through. (Or bandages or painkillers or whatever). Don&#8217;t forget to put time in your diary after the presentation to deal with the consequences though. \u00a0You&#8217;re not Superman. And even if you are you just got hit with Kryptonite.<\/li>\n<li>Confess. Apologising isn&#8217;t always the best way to start a presentation but sometimes you just have to address the elephant in the room. <strong>Don&#8217;t dwell on it &#8211; just through it out there and move on. I can&#8217;t stress that enough. <\/strong>\u00a0If you dwell on it it sounds like excuses. My experience is that it&#8217;s best to mention it in passing at some appropriate point near the start of the presentation &#8216;in passing&#8217;.<\/li>\n<li>Check your tech. This is one for all of those presenters who fancy themselves as story-tellers. Great: you should be &#8211; but if your story-telling style involves bouncing around a lot and you can&#8217;t do that, consider using a different style\/technology\/approach. I&#8217;m a very high-energy presenter, so this is one I&#8217;ve fallen back on quite a few times ;)<\/li>\n<li>Accept it. So long as no-one dies it&#8217;s not been a disaster, has it! Life has more important things than the perfect presentation. So long as it does what it needs to do, all is well. It doesn&#8217;t need to be <em>perfect<\/em>, just effective.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Okay &#8211; I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve got more ideas! \u00a0Let&#8217;s hear &#8217;em!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How am I not at my best? 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