{"id":915,"date":"2006-06-30T09:18:59","date_gmt":"2006-06-30T08:18:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.elementally.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/?p=6"},"modified":"2006-06-30T09:18:59","modified_gmt":"2006-06-30T08:18:59","slug":"6","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/6\/","title":{"rendered":"Nervous posting&#8230;.."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We&#8217;ve just finished GCSEs in our house. Of the whole family, there&#8217;s only one of us who was sitting the exams, but we were <em><strong>all<\/strong> <\/em>nervous! Some of us have more reason than others: unfortunately, nerves are infectious. I&#8217;ve heard arguments that it&#8217;s to do with pheromones of the nervous person being breathed in by the people around them and I&#8217;ve heard people say it&#8217;s just down to us interpreting the nervous person&#8217;s body-language. Whatever causes it, the effects can be potent.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re one of a group of speakers when you&#8217;ve got to make a presentation, as often happens in meetings or conferences, you could find yourself suffering from <em>other <\/em>people&#8217;s nerves. So how do you fight this?<\/p>\n<p>Well, it&#8217;s not easy, to be honest.<\/p>\n<p>Part of the answer is easier said than done &#8211; just stay focused on what you have to do and ignore other people &#8211; but another part is quite straight-forward: stay away. If you can, sit near a window (or door) to keep yourself in a flow of fresher air. This will keep you cool as well as unaffected by pheromones. Sit down, don&#8217;t stand, which will make it easier for you to avoid the wind-up activities such as pacing, hopping from leg to leg and so on.<\/p>\n<p>Then concentrate on your hands: make a point of keeping them open and &#8220;floppy&#8221; so that there&#8217;s no rigidity in the tendons there. You&#8217;ll find that keeping the extremity of your hands in this (artificially) relaxed state will help hugely to keep the rest of you relaxed.<\/p>\n<p>This is partially &#8216;cos it works in its own right and &#8211; of course &#8211; partially &#8216;cos it works as a kind of mantra, keeping you from stewing in your own presentation nerves.<\/p>\n<p>A simple presentation trick, for sure &#8211; but simple is best when it works (like our <a title=\"commercial site\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.tellingpeople.co.uk\">presentation skills training<\/a>)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We&#8217;ve just finished GCSEs in our house. Of the whole family, there&#8217;s only one of us who was sitting the exams, but we were all nervous! Some of us have more reason than others: unfortunately, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-915","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-presentation-tips"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/915","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=915"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/915\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=915"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=915"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.awareplus.co.uk\/presentation-skills-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=915"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}