Actually I’m pretty sure she didn’t mention presentation skills at all. I didn’t listen to her much: perhaps I’d have been more successful if I had, but I didn’t. Â One of the things I remember are those times when I asked for permission to do something. Â It might have been to stay out late, or buy something I wasn’t allowed. Â Whatever it was, I should have known better.
The thing was, though, even though I should have known better, I was a kid and I wanted the extra sweets….
But I was a kid and also wanted my mother’s approval – which is why I asked, even though I was pretty sure what the answer was going to be. Â And then came the standard answer: Â “If you have to ask the question, you already know the answer.”
As you can tell, it’s stuck with me.
If I had a pound for every time someone I was training asked me a similar question, I’d be a rich man. Â “Can I just put an extra bullet-point in here?” Â “Is it all right if I just have an extra few slides at the end about X, Y & Z?”
And my answer? Always the same. Â Always. (Well, almost! :) )
If you have to ask the question, you already know the answer. Â The danger of course, is that people don’t even remember to ask the question in the first place, but that’s a different problem! Â :)
Good Post!
I’m sure my mom said the same thing. Or, she just gave me “the look!”
Similar lesson: If you’re pointing a finger at someone, you have three point bak at yourself!
Thanks!