So scared it hurts

I recently did a session for an organisation whose brief was to help the voluntary sector in our part of the country become more professional and organised. The day was, obviously, about making a presentation to potential funders and had a “Dragon’s Den” format for the afternoon.

Take-up wasn’t good, sadly. They’d organised the day on the grounds that this was what people wanted and needed, because they were anxious about it – because pitching for funding is a critical part of any project. It turned out that people were so anxious about being bad at public speaking they were too anxious to even try it in a training environment. What’s more, people tended to come alone, rather than in pairs – the benefit of moral support being out-weighed by the shame of being seen to be a bad public speaker by a colleague!

So, so sad!

How did it come to this?

Well let’s not get too despondent. The people we’re talking about care very much about what they do – otherwise they’d not be doing it. That’s great: I’d rather work with people who cared than people who wanted to talk for the sake of it. And – at risk of sounding patronising, please forgive me – we’re not talking about professionally trained speakers or high-powered business men or women. We’re talking about real people, with real jobs. Working really hard.

…and if public speaking, making a presentation, isn’t part of their everyday working life they’re not going to have found the time to get a series of successful presentations under their belts. Each and every presentation is going to feel like the first time. And I don’t know about you, but my first time wasn’t good.

So what’s to be done?  Well, I’d welcome your ideas!  All I can think of is to continue to offer great training that’s not intimidating, that’s not stressful and that is a load of fun.